There are a few tricks and tips that make anal penetration a whole lot more comfortable and even pleasurable for both parties. DO NOT simply push hard and try to force an object through the ass's natural restrictions. Extreme pain results!

Inside your butt are SEVERAL circular muscles (sphincter muscles) that surround the anal opening.

Getting past these sphincter muscles is the only hard part. These sphincter muscles hold the fecal material (poop) inside you until you are ready to go potty. It is critical that your rectum be cleansed of all this poop prior to attempting anal insertion.

Begin with thin, smooth objects, such as your fingers (nails trimmed), and work your way up, slowly stretching your partner’s, (or your own) asshole. Copious lubrication, and going slowly, is critical to making this a pain free activity. Lubricate both the anal opening deeply, as well as the object to be inserted. Make sure that the object to be inserted is smooth and has nothing that could puncture or tear the soft, vulnerable flesh within.

When any object you are inserting meets resistance, STOP! Do NOT continue to push hard! Instead, keep slight pressure on the object, but wait for a bit, then gently, ever so gently press a bit harder again. If the restriction still exists, wait again.

The reason for this is simple. When a thicker object such as a penis (or dildo) is inserted within the anus, it meets resistance from the sphincter muscles. These muscles, when they feel pressure within their ring (such as from poop), naturally begin to expand. This may take a little while. But if you wait for them to do what comes naturally to them, they will expand and allow an object to pass through.

That is assuming the object is not larger than the poop that normally passes through. If an object is larger than normal, the sphincters must expand beyond their normal range, and this takes patience and practice.

As you continue to insert an object into the asshole, there will be yet other sphincters that also must expand. Again, wait, let them do what comes naturally! Then gently push again and see if the second or third sphincter has sufficiently expanded.

Be patient, the anal opening can accommodate some amazingly large object with out pain once trained to accept them.

There are three sphincters inside your ass. There is the sphincter at your ass’s opening. Its job is to keep things like water out when you go swimming. Then there is the sphincter about a two knuckles of your middle finger up inside. And then a third “lifting” sphincter. It holds the poop up within your rectum, and seals the rectum from unwanted poop migration. You must allow each of these to open and permit passage as you attempt anal sex.

So:
1. Clean the anal canal thoroughly.
2. Insert smooth objects only.
3. COPIOUS lubrication on opening and on object to be inserted.
4. Allow nature to expand the sphincters during insertion.
5. Stretch the opening capacities of the sphincters over time.
6. Let the person whose ass is being violated control the speed and pressure of insertion.

7. ENJOY!

Deni
Better Sex Advice