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Touching
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As women, we are usually at a loss as to how to touch a man’s
penis in a way that is wonderfully pleasuring to him. Our man wants
us to bring him to orgasm manually, but we have NO clue has to how
to do that. How tightly do we hold his cock? How far up and down his
shaft to we move our hands? How do we hold our hands on him as we
stroke him?
Getting a man to experience orgasm as we touch him is often a lengthy
process. We feel so clumsy about it, and we often ARE clumsy about
it, that our arm wears out before he cums. Then in frustration he
moves our hand aside and does it himself, right, the first time.
Now bear in mind, that every man does himself differently.
They all have techniques that feel best to them. So you may have to
experiment, ask questions (in a sexy tone) and watch how he does it
himself. (A woman raptly watching him masturbate from close up is
a real turn-on to a man). You may have to induce him to let you watch.
Try offering to let him cum in your mouth or on your breasts as an
inducement. Remember that as they get closer to cumming, they often
change techniques. Watch for that. DON”T ask questions when he
is close to cumming. Gently playing with his testicles as you watch
is a great way to help out. Men love to hear us squeel in delight
as they start to shoot.
So, if you can get your man to show you how HE does it, you are miles
ahead! But in general, for a starter, try these things. Well . . .
. . here is how I do it for my lover.
1) Place your body where you can rest your wrist on his hip
or tummy and still be able to move your hand an inch and a half or
two inches by flexing your wrist back and forth. This will help with
your fatigue factor. I usually lie on my man’s right side, my
shoulder about level with his, and I put my head on his shoulder or
on the pillow beside his head. I use my right hand to stroke him.
(I am right handed.)
2) Wrap your first finger and thumb around his cock shaft two
inches below his glans (the cute little crown men have at the bottom
of their little helmet). You will move your hand from that location
up to just below his crown, but not over his crown. That is your stroking
range. Readjust your position beside him so that you can move your
hand up and down his cock this distance by simply flexing your wrist,
your wrist and forearm resting on him. Remember, this may take awhile,
so get comfy.
3) Stroke SLOW. Don’t wear yourself out by doing it fast.
Nice slow movements up and down his shaft are the key. You will feel
his cock continue to harden if you are going the right speed. If his
cock begins to soften, you are doing it wrong (Make your fantasy more
lurid, slow your speed, let your little finger caress his balls each
time you come to the bottom of your stroke).
4) Breathe in his ear, and whisper sexual fantasies to him
if you want to shorten the process. This is one reason you should
have your head right next to his.
5) How tightly do you grip? Put three fingers in your mouth,
and purse your lips around them. Now purse your lips (NOT your teeth)
as tightly as you can. THAT is how tightly you should hold his shaft
in your hand. If you are gripping it the right tightness, then you
should feel the irregularities that lie under the skin of his penis.
A man’s penis is not smooth under his skin! And the sensations
my hand feels as it caresses his shaft, sensing the little bumps and
textures there, is a real turn on for me. Enjoy!
6) When he is beginning to stiffen throughout his body, and
breathing harder, DON”T speed up. Wait, make him ‘suffer’
as his body begins to beg for release. When his penis begins to swell
slightly, and his balls begin to pulse, put your head in his lap and
tell him out-loud to cum in your mouth. Then put your lips around
his cock and enjoy his gift to you. You will feel his gratitude, you
will see it in his eyes, you will experience it the next day, ALL
day. Men love it when you are willing to take their cummies into your
mouth and swallow them, or kiss him with it still in your mouth (ask
first about that part). Personally, a man’s cum is my favorite
food group, full of protein and goodness!
You my have heard about the woman that liked peanut butter so well
she smeared it all over her husbands cock? She liked that so well
that pretty soon she didn’t need the peanut butter.
Deni
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