Dear Deni
If I give my man oral sexy with ice every time we
have sex is that a bad thing?
And if I were to decide to change it up what do
you think would be another way to sexually
pleasure his penis before I fuck the shit out of
him and leave him brainless off my soft smooth
wet juicy pussy..
After I do that would it be okay to suck my
juicies and his juicies off of his penis with
some chocolate syrup and real whip cream...
Well can’t wait until your response

Cherry

Dear Cherry,

Your proclivity to use food with sex is a real
turn on! Made me giggle as I read your question!

Using ice as part of oral sex is a great idea,
and no, it is not a bad thing.

Other ways might include using your mouth without
ice, or using your hand to jack his penis as you
suckle just his glans. Or you might try putting
B-Bs or ball-bearings, or small smooth rocks in
your mouth as you suckle him. Make sure they are
clean before you use them. And be careful not to
swallow any.

Deep throating his penis is also a real turn on
to men. The sensation of his glans popping into
your throat can be very sensuous.

Some men like to have you chew on their penis.
Others like to feel your teeth scrape lightly up
and down their penis. Suck on or tickle his
testicles, or toy with his perineum or anus as
you suckle.

Reach up and see if his nipples like to be
caressed, or pinched, or tugged.

Some men like to have you actually finger fuck
their anus as you suckle t hem.

I am certain there are many other ways of
“changing up” as well. Experiment, read about
how other women pleasure their man. Experiment,
honey, and don’t worry if it is “right”.

There is no reason not to enjoy both of your
juices after you have made love. And adding food
to the mix can often be a wonderful aphrodisiac.
Just be careful to cleanse his penis before he
re-enters your vagina, so that you don’t get a
yeast infection.

Happy sexing honey! You sound like a delightful
lover.

Deni
Samarel Sex Guide Editor
Better Sex Advice

Dear Deni
My boyfriend wants to have a threesome but I
don’t know who to do it with. Do you have some
ideas? Please let me know

Thank you,
Kathleen

Dear Kathleen,

You don’t mention if he wants to add a female or
a male to your love making. I am going to assume
he wants to have another female in bed with you
two.

He most likely wants YOU to find your “third”.

So you need to find a woman who turns you on. At
this point in your sexual development, you may
have no clue what that means. So start with
making a list of friends that you know and like
and enjoy spending time with, such as work mates,
or friends from sports, or just people that you
know from your daily life, are all possibilities.

Once you have decided on your “third”, get to
know them well. Have them join you on your
dates with your boyfriend. Try to become a
chummy threesome before you actually begin to
insinuate that you would like them to join you in
bed. They may already have figured out that is
where this is going, but until you are sure you
want to share your bed with them, do not tell
them that is what you want to have happen.

After you are ready to focus on a person who is a
potential “third”, start researching them a bit.
Make SURE they are Disease free and do not use
Drugs (D&D free). Asking them that question is
NOT a viable way of finding out. Have them
tested, even if you and your boyfriend have to
pay for it. Be SURE they are D&D free.

Be as certain as you can that they are not
violent and that they are the type of person who
is considerate of your feelings.

This may sound like a lot of work. But believe
me, this can be a life changing experience, for
better or for worse, so be careful, honey.

So take it slow and easy. Do your homework, be
sure, and then proceed with caution.

Good luck. This can be a LOT of fun.

Deni
Samarel Sex Guide Editor
Better Sex Advice

Dear Deni
…I have just given my boyfriend oral sex for the
first time, I swallowed the semen but 1 and a
half hours later I was sick. Is this normal and
would I get use to it, or should I not do it
again,

Sarah

Dear Sarah

I have never had this problem, so I consulted a
knowledgeable male friend that had some very
helpful suggestions for you.

His suggestions were:

1) You might experiment with your boyfriend’s
diet. If his diet is causing his sperm to be too
acidic, or to alkaline, that could cause your
discomfort. Try having him eat more sweet fruits
and cutting back, WAY back on carbonated
beverages is a good start. Acid drinks such as
lemonade could also be a problem.

2) Eat before you suckle his penis to fruition.
Even a piece of bread eaten before you ingest his
sperm might help. An empty stomach can sometimes
cause indigestion.

3) If the above suggestions don’t work, have
your boyfriend abstain from meat for a few days
and see if this solves the problem. Vegetarian
burgers can substitute while you experiment a
bit.

And it could be that another sort of problem,
totally unrelated to imbibing in his manly juices
could have caused your tummy’s distress.

So I would not tell you to stop enjoying his sexy
juices until you have ruled out all of the above.
If at that time you are still sensitive to his
sperm, you might try talking to a doctor (an
internist) about it.

Personally I LOVE the taste and texture of sperm
in my mouth. I sometimes wonder if there is a
way to eat it at all of my meals. I have had
sperm on my cereal, in my spaghetti, in a Kailua
Crème, and just plain straight out of its
gorgeous cock. I love it all ways!

Let me know if you discover a solution, even if
it is not one I suggested, OK? Thanks

Deni
Samarel Sex Guide Editor
Better Sex Advice